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What do men want from women? This question is pretty much excited and desirable. Every woman want to know what is the trick, and from the beginning women wanted to know about men and what they want from them. Every successful association depending upon this question. If you want a man attention you should know what are his requirements, and interests. What thing attract him more, know his desire, as well as his emotional points. 

Some points are here which exists to give you the answer to this question.

What do men want from women 

 1 Sexy Appearance 

2 Desire

 3 Respect 

4 Attitude

 5 Maturity 

6 Simplicity

7 Authenticity

8 Good friend 

9 Affection 

10 Gratitude 

Sexiest appearance

 The first thing attracts men most that exists your first sexiest appearance if you wear the sexiest dress in front of him, he could not prevent himself to look you again and again. Sexiest dress means not tooMuch revelling clothes, but if you wear a dress that you look more presentable, they definitely like you. 

Desire 

Know his desires, why he is love with you, is he physically attract from you, or he needs some other things, every man wants that his girlfriend should most beautiful and sexiest personality, find out what his desire and try to fulfil it.

Respect

Every relationship wants respect there is give and take rule is applicable. Know the values of each other, don’t argue if you can avoid the arguments when we are in a relationship we want pureness from the other part. Be pure and genuine with them definitely you will return more.

Attitude

If you show him little attitude they will take interest in you because men never like that kind of girl who desperately wants them. If you want their interest in you to show them a little attitude.

Maturity

Men like more that girl, ladies who understand them easily, men always like to develop a connection with women who are not complaining nature .maturity doesn’t mean to pretend that you are mature, but the maturity means how would you handle a situation which is against you.

Authenticity

Authentic women are a likeable personality, control your insecurities, and win them from the heart, maybe this process is hard but not Rocket science, put your all efforts be an authentic they will like your this quality, be loyal with him.

Good friend 

Be a good friend of him, he could share with you any type of problem as a friend, don’t be a boss, don’t take charge of his life, give him space like a friend, enjoy his success stories, appreciate him, encourage him if he feels low.

Trust 

Don’t doubt about his capabilities, they want your beliefs, trust them, don’t nag them they don’t like discomfort, understand them in an easier way.

Affection

They want your love, that’s the reason they choose you, every man has a different taste but they want love in a furthermore. They love your touches, your kisses and your feelings exceptionally. Show him your love, your care they want it most.

Gratitude

Everyone wants this, men similarly want this, appreciate him what they did for you, use affirmative words in your relationship. If you are thankful for him, he will give you more attention to you.

Someone cheated you, and you feel depression, obliviously you experience a lot of bad emotions, you feel empty, you face sadness, anger, and shock, you could not understand why they did it, you would ask to you, how to heal, and how to deal with this situation, life circumstances are not in our hand if you want to solve this situation, want to get rid of, just focus on yourself, boost your self-esteem.

Cry, cry and cry 

It is relevant that you have to release all these negative emotions, go to your room and cry, scream, shout,  but don’t blame you, don’t feel bad about you, you are not responsible that person is responsible who cheated you. Understand this is not your fault, But it is important to feel loosen up and recover from the situation.

Take care of yourself 

Aware with your thoughts, your emotions. observe your all emotions , and think about how to deal with cheating. Take charge of yourself, don’t express your emotion in a destructive way, don’t hurt yourself, if you face the suicidal thoughts, because of this situation call immediately your friend, or family member, get recover from it, controlling yourself is one of the important parts.

Write all this on paper 

Write down all emotions on the paper, write how much you loved and they betrayed you. You are just expressing them in a way, that doesn’t hurt another someone.

Call therapists

Go to the therapists,  counsellor. If is it Necessary. if the situation is critical and you should have to decide to go to the therapist for advice, you want to get rid of the situation, to gain your self-respect, want to get back that person in your life. You should go to a counsellor. It will give you inner strength, this is also very emotionally traumatic and a professional can help you.

Gym 

Go to the gym and punch as much as you can on the punching bag. Assume in your mind that the punching bag is that person who cheated you. And another thing you can do just think that you have a bowl full of stone, throw it all stones one by one to the person who created you. you hurting him by the stone and getting rid of your anger. Do workout more to reduce from outrage.

Listen to explanation 

Give them more time to explain themselves, listen to them why they cheated you .if they apologize you and promised you that they never do this again, give them another chance, but do not believe them again, pretend only your trust . forgiving them this is only your choice.

Single 

Being single is amazing. after cheating you also have time to trust on anyone, being single you could enjoy everything in your life in your own way .you have a right vision to see the world, you don’t have to depend upon others for their opinion, you are free to live bachelor life again, a single person spends more time with family and friends, they could concentrate on their aims, they could pursue their fascination, they could focus on their goals.

How to be attractive, how to influence people, what is a strategic plan for it, how to become memorable and attractive, looking attractive not only in the mirror but also around you is very important. Make a glow-up plan.

There are so many things to a more attractive individual

Healthy lifestyle

Adopt a healthy lifestyle, add nutritious food in your diet, make beauty goals and change your daily routine. start making improvement. exercise is a great way to feel more attractive. If You are too skinny to gain some muscle. Don’t think that you are going to take part on the marathon, and you should become a bodybuilder, maintain a healthy lifestyle meditate yourself and start to live a healthy lifestyle, exercise regularly, boost the immune system. if you are not sure, what to eat, check out your role model diet plan.

Well dress up

This is the most important thing how to look attractive, wear what you want, and where you feel comfortable, look classy, you can be trendy your dressing sense shows your personality, wear according to the season, don’t we everything, everywhere, highlight your strength and hide your weakness to look good and more attractive.

Smile

A smile is a huge tool in attractiveness. People who smile more can actually feel happier people who smile always look more confident, a smile is the prettiest thing smile always make you attractive.

Walk with the confidence

You are unique. Your posture says a lot about you. Your head high and our shoulders back, be self-confident, focus on your strength adopt a habit of walking and sitting back .one of the biggest mistake that guys do, when they are walking they look down, walk straight can make you more confident and attractive.

Be polite 

Be polite with others, listen carefully, talk properly, fulfil their requirements, no one wants to be left out, offering them your help, what they expected from you. If you talk with them politely they will associate a positive connection with you, listen carefully, be friendly, kind and positive with others. Effective speaking .

Effective speaking

Effective speaking makes you more attractive. In conversation thinks properly, listen carefully, then keep your properly your opinion in front of people, start your conversation with questions, when you ask question people being alert and start to give all kind of information about the topics, to be more conversational, use conversational language, while you are middle of a conversation, keep your phone in purse or pocket, seem interested, don’t interrupt, and keep your body language friendly and open.

How to be a strong mindset personality

How to handle the situations which are against you. Every field there is a tough tournament. How you face all the obstacles in your path. You wanna prove yourself you need to have a strong mindset. every time you cannot have favourable situations. If the situation is going against you, how can you manage.

Some point is here you could improve in yourself.

Courage

Yes, courage is an important thing, you have to take the risk if you wanna climb on achievement’s mountain, you need courage, without courage you could not get success.
If any kind of situation came to you, how would you handle if you feel afraid from the situation, you have to be a courageous person.

Optimistic

Before solving the problem don’t think that you could not solve the problem. never think that you are a failure.you have to be always in a positive attitude.

Be a passionate person

Love your passion, follow your dreams, in any difficult circumstance don’t give up your passion, it needed to a strong mindset, we have many negative people around us they trying to discourage us ,if you have a strong mindset, people could not harm you.

Progressive mind

Think, all things are in improving you in some way. Don’t be so judgemental and narrow-minded person, it will not give you any progress in your life if your thought process is in a narrow-minded way you could not focus on your purposes.

Never afraid to fail

Every strong minded person has set up their goals clearly. they think all path is easy because of their mind .they ready to take all kind of risk, they never lose their confidence, and they never afraid to fail.

Self help

Some questions stuck my mind from yesterday. In corona time when people suffering many problems due to this decease. India is trying to fight with corona, and sudden news came from the film industry that a successful actor committed suicide. This news is undigested.

Why people attempt suicide:

Are they suffering a bad relationship?

Why the accomplishment of success given us loneliness?

Which is the point when people decide that they have rights to kill yourself?

Why they did not recognize themselves?

Why didn’t think about their families?

Is it this suicide path so easy than the life given by God?

How would we recover

1) Try to control your emotions

2) Do not stick with any incident, any person, any situation.

3) Try to laugh at you, take all thing so easy,  make fun with you,  watch comedy shows, it will develop your sense of humour.

4 )Get rid of your stress, throw it away from you, stress is just a time being, the entire life is ahead.

5) Love yourself as no one is as beautiful as you.Be flexible with the situations.

In the whole entire world, only one person is important for you, and who is that person , it’s only you ! very few people could understand this if you love yourself you can love others, only some of the people could be live alone, it is important to love others to love first yourself if a person doesn’t love himself , how would he love others.

Don’t focus on negative things

It is a bad habit of a person, they stick with the negative things, they found everywhere negativity, they could see negatively anywhere . How would it possible to every person only suffer negative things in their life, how could it happens that nothing happens well in your life, change your point of view to see the world, be thankful to God whatever you have in your life.

Understand your values

Make distance with those people who feel you down, be with that person who motivates you to achieve your dreams, you feel better with that person who trying to make you happy .quality over quantity always.

Be supportive with yourself

Is it necessary you want permission to others, whatever your wants try to help yourself to get it , don’t ask permission to others, people do whatever they want in their life, they never ask your permission, then why should you have to permission for it , be supportive ! No need to ask anyone what you want in your life.

Do not compare

Comparing is very bad quality . stop comparing you to others .in this society from childhood elders taught us , who has money , power , smartness only they are successful. And we try to compare with them , if you believe in this false story you never be happy in your life.

Take care of yourself

Do exercise regularly, eat healthy food , make your body strong , develop some good habits ,start take care of yourself. If you are fit, you feel good about yourself . if you look handsome, feel good about yourself definitely you will fall in love with you.

Be a flexible person

Don’t rigid with your thought process ,whatever the situation is , stop self-loathing, if your situation is not favourable,don’t think that it will never change , be flexible, never criticise yourself adding pain to pain , so change your thoughts and love yourself.

Collect all blessings

Respect elders, respect yourself, respect younger too, try to love every person in your life, give value to others , value yourself , be a person with good vibrations, if you collect all the blessing , it is gift from the God too , speak with yourself politely , the natural state is our is happiness if you love yourself automatically you feel happy .

You are in competition world, you should to prove yourself, be the best version of yourself, it is important that you have to leave your negative phase and enter into in positive phase, find out your face and show in front of people, there is only one you, who are you inside, what is your values, take a first step to find yourself, change is only consent thinking of life, believe that you have already have inside, who is that personality, we all have someone.  how would you be a ideal person, how would you change into in dynamic person, here is some tips and way to work on yourself.

Work on your inner beauty

Don’t make yourself arrogant, dominating, behave like a loveable, decent, energetic person. so work on your inner beauty.

Imitate your ideal

Be a adaptive person, if you like someone, make him as a roll model, observe his all activities, adopt his best quality, spend time with him, see, how he deal with the problems, if he / she is a actor / actress  read all things about him /her, adopt everything.

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Be more passionate

Dream dream dream ! isn’t it beautiful, follow the dreams,be more passionate about your dream, achieve what you want in your life, make a statgy, remind a beautiful, positive statement in your mind daily.

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A good communication skills

wise men speaks because they have to say something, fools because speaks they have to say something. learn how to speak and what to speak in front of people, how you use impressive and effective language, try to impress people, just in few words, using a better communication skills.

Don’t show your weak point

Beware! handle your emotions, do not tell your emotions to anybody, in your backside people will laugh on you, they will mock on you, be strong, never share your unsuccessful stories with them, always try to speak on your achievements.

Patience 

Patience is secret ingredients for the becoming winner, it doesn’t happen overnight, you have to work on yourself, you are a fighter, never give up, have a patience, and take a right path to fulfill your dreams,feel good about yourself,  and work on yourself to achieve your goals. 

What is the rule of self care, why it is essential, never forget who you are ! always try to give positive food to your mind. whole world is crazy and we are living in a crazy time, the things are not going well, our routine give us stress. we want some break to motivate ourself. here are some tips how you stay positive and look after yourself.

Yoga

Yoga originated in India. yoga is so graceful for us, if you do yoga in morning time, it will beneficial for you, do only 30 minutes daily.

Dance

Dance with yourself, dance is a good exercise for your mind, it gives a positivity to yourself, do close the door, start music, and enjoy dance with yourself, if you are in stress and want to relax yourself, start a dance it is no matter you are a good dancer or not, enjoy dance with your self.

Change your environment

If you are sitting in a messy room, you have messy living room, your desk is not properly organized, your kitchen lookes dirty, take a duster and start to clean up, if you are in stress and you trying to clean all you need , you will find out that you kill all stress in your mind, this is also a part of self care.

Baking
Baking is a good idea ! if you are in a stress, and wants to motivate yourself, wants to feel good about yourself, take a pot, and start to bake, make cake , biscuits, whatever you want, it is scientifically proven that you start baking, it is good for you.

Keep distance with negative people
Cut out all the negativity, if people did not give you happiness, don’t pull the cart full of negative people, keep distance, think only about yourself, think only about a good company, live with that people, who love you, who cares you.

Take a walk
When you are walking alone, it means, you are with you, no one could interrupt you, you can figure out all the problems, so take a walk with you, and collect all the positivity for you.
go a coffee house and sit there alone, no matter what people think about you, go and watch people around, and try to talk with strangers, it will help you to make friends.

Take a shower,

Take a spa, massage your body to relax yourself, light up your bathroom to candles, it gives you inner strength.

Take a break

Turn your phone off, avoid people to talk, disconnect with the social media, disconnect all communication, and spend time only with you

Have a tea with you

Make a cup of tea, sit with you, and enjoy it, always try to kind with you, the whole world is wierd, some people do not like you, they do not like your progress, they do not treat you well, only you are the best friend of yourself , so always take care of yourself. 

It is very important that you look perfect in public, always try to recreate yourself and update yourself, it shows that how confident you are ! blow dried your hair, well dress up, polished your nails, always wear clean shoes, sandil, use a good quality bag, keep update yourself, read newspaper regularly, don’t show that you have a lot of knowledge about all field but some knowledge is required to talk comfortably to others.

Dress up 

Always dressed up well, look beautiful, if you have a good dressing sense people will notice it. it is nothing to do with expensive, branded clothes, whatever you wear look good, then you feel more confident. look classy, not like a expensive gift. 

Smell good 

Use a good fragrance. if you pass by the people always smell good. people start feel good about you because of your fragrance.

Smile 

yes, your smile is important factor, smile perfectly in public. give others to your beautiful smile not a fake smile, smile shows your positive apperience, if you smile good, people will think that you have a positive attitude.

Stay positive

if your mind is not well it shows in your attitude, if you are in a bad mood you have to change your mood in a good mood. if a negative thoughts can change your mindset then a happy music is also change your mood in positive way. if your thoughts are positive you feel good about yourself, then you can talk to good to others.

Behave like a queen

always feel like a queen. you should feel like a queen in public too, A queen never afraid to fail. I am not talking that you should misbehave with others, talk people with arrogantly but show a little bit attitude it makes you more confident.

Conversation

 Take a part in their conversation whatever they talks, first listen what they are talking about, don’t intrupt but take a part if there any chance.